Feeling Your Reality

We are always matching our outside with our inside; we are always creating the external with the internal.  In this post I share some experiements I decided to run so I could “test” this idea.  I also share the resutls of those experiments and what you can do to start experimenting with your own reality.

Hypothesis: what we feel indeed creates our physical reality.

It was back about 3 years ago.

I was playing NHL 99 on my Xbox with a close friend of mine. He always killed me at this game.  He was really good.

We were having a few beers and I was in a slump.  I had lost 7 games in a row.  He was torching me 7 wins to nill :(

It was at this point that I decided to run a little experiment. I decided that during the first period intermission I would feel what it would be like to win and score lots of goals – just as an experiment; just for fun.

That was it.

I made up my mind that I would go to that imaginary place and feel what it would be like to score those game winners.

So that’s what I did.

The first intermission came and I went to that place for 2-3 minutes.   I really felt like I was winning and scoring the game winners.  Then I let that feeling go.

We started playing NHL hockey again.

Within 5 minutes of starting the second period I scored a goal.  Then I scored another goal and then another.

I was on fire!

My good friend was a little surprsied. This was the first time where I had been this “lucky” and won the game.

So what happened? What was the difference?

The Big Difference

I was feeling my way into winning. I wasn’t trying harder to win.  I was feeling it as if I had already won. 

Even though it was all in my imagination I just ‘pretended’ I was winning.  And to be honest, it wasn’t that hard for me to do that because I had won hockey games before.

That was my first real piece of evidence that physical manifestation is happening on a moment to moment basis.

And it will work for you too!

After that smaller experiment, I started playing bigger experiments. I started to “feel-my-way” into scoring goals in real ice hockey.  I figured that if it worked for a game console, then it should work just as well for ice-hockey too!

So I gave it a shot.

I had one experience where I was sitting in the penalty box during a hockey game.   We were losing the game and our team needed a goal real badly.

As I was sitting in the penalty box I just closed my eyes and started to relax.  I went to that place where I felt like I had just scored the game winner… that sent a tingle down my spine as I felt the excitement.

I opened my eyes ready to play.

As soon as I got out of the penalty box, I had a break away and scored a goal for the team.

I had scored by intending it.

How cool is that?

Now that made me even more curious.   I wonder if this would work with money too?

So with that curiosity, I took those little experiments and turned them into bigger experiments.  First it was hockey games.  Then it was real ice-hockey games.  Then attracting money!

Each and every time I played the game I raised the bar.  I kept taking it a step further to see how far I could take it.

And each time I created the intended result, I started to believe I could create something bigger and better.

It started to become a belief.

Feel Your Way Into Your Reality

The bottom line is that what we feel indeed creates our physical reality.

Maybe you get it here and there – a ‘flash’ of insight.  You see the great connection between the inner and outer worlds; the fact that you are the creator of your life.

And the more often you make this connection, the easier it is for you to believe.

My purpose is this – to remind you that you are the co-creator. You are the wizard. You are the magician. You are the painter. You are the Picasso of your life. It’s all you.

Try this 7 Day Manifestation Experiment.


  • Rick

    Reply Reply August 25, 2011

    Awesome post Steve! We just gotta consciously choose to remember to focus on the desired outcome! Thank You for Sharing

  • Steve

    Reply Reply August 25, 2011

    …nice energy Rick :D Always a pleasure ;)

  • Veronica

    Reply Reply August 26, 2011

    Ditto, Steve – excellent post. You seem to sense the current flow of energy, feelings and experiences of people and address them directly. Your posts are always genuine, informative, concise and meaningful and I always look forward to each one! Thanks so much for putting it all out there.

  • Steve

    Reply Reply August 26, 2011

    …that is sweet of you Veronica. Thank you :)

  • Sheldon

    Reply Reply August 27, 2011

    Dear Steve,

    It’s a remarkable article that you have written.Very thought provoking indeed. I just need an insight from you . You said that it wasn’t that hard for you to imagine winning a hockey game because you had won hockey games before.

    Now suppose you had never won a hockey game before or maybe say you want to top the Semester in class, which you haven’t done previously(hypothetically speaking) , how difficult is it then to get into the feeling place of having already achieved it.

    Many Thanks,


  • Steve

    Reply Reply August 27, 2011

    …hey Sheldon… I’m sure there are times went you felt “on top” of the world. Use that as a starting point towards a better feeling-thought…

    …you gotta remember it’s the feeling you’re looking for, the experience… capture that in your imagination and you’ll connect to the infinite intelligence.

  • Raj Khanna

    Reply Reply September 2, 2011

    Hi Steve,

    I have been going through your blog for the past one year . Will sincerely appreciate a advice from you .

    My MBA 3rd semester result came out yesterday and I failed in the semester.This is inspite of the fact that I had visualized even before a month of the exam in June that I am already an MBA and also felt it .

    Will you please take a minute of your time to let me know why the Law of Attraction did not work for me , or rather worked in the opposite.


    Raj , Delhi(India)

  • Rob

    Reply Reply March 25, 2012

    Why wasn’t the above question ever answered?

  • Anton

    Reply Reply November 26, 2012

    Hi, Steve!

    I did the steps exactly described in this article. I visualized myself already having that particular downhill longboard I wanted after I outgrew my first downhill board, detached myself from the outcome, then I chatted with my friend on facebook who runs a boardshop up north if he had that particular skateboard. He told me he ran out of that particular model, so I told my friend to surprise me in case he’ll have some boards of the same model shipped in. What happened next was rad. Some time after we chatted online, I received a personal message on facebook from my buddy who told me that he already has my board and reserved it for me. A couple of days later, he shipped it to my location, and my board arrived at my doorstep the next day! Amazing! :)

  • Steve

    Reply Reply November 26, 2012

    @ Anton… Fun!

  • Anton

    Reply Reply November 28, 2012

    Rad post, by the way! :) I keep comin’ back to this particular post to really absorb the lesson. :)

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