“Big doors swing on little hinges.” ~ W. Clement Stone

It’s been my experience that when I struggled to get ahead to make it to the next level of achievement, it always came down to these two obstacles. Once you learn to overcome them, you’ll make the greatest leaps in your progress in the shortest possible time.

Here’s the first video:


  • Belle

    Reply Reply April 19, 2010

    Yes, I have exploded!!! I am loving it :) Thank you Steve!

  • Steve

    Reply Reply April 19, 2010

    That was the best ‘word’ I could find to explain your results :-)


  • joanne

    Reply Reply April 22, 2010

    I couldnt agree with you more!!! cant wait to recieve the rest of the training!!! great….

  • Mike

    Reply Reply May 2, 2010

    AWESOME, winning is one inch either way, but with confidence and desire, winning is everything always. THanks

  • giridhar

    Reply Reply May 4, 2010

    fantastic, waiting for the nest videos. May God bless you with lots and lots of sucess

  • Dilfuza

    Reply Reply May 5, 2010

    Steve, that’s exciting indeed! Thanks a lot for sharing it! Can’t wait to see the next 7 videos!!!
    Thank you!

  • KimAlyse Popkave

    Reply Reply June 5, 2010


    You have some great ideas. However, your video was difficult to listen to, simply because the sound quality was not great. You need for your mic to be stronger.

    Thank you.

  • Steve

    Reply Reply June 5, 2010

    Hey Kim,

    Yeah, the volume seems to be low. The best thing to do is to click on the video and at the bottom right there is a volume button. It’s just left of the words ‘BitGravity’ and you can turn that volume dial up to 100%.

  • solomon

    Reply Reply July 1, 2010

    I want be a millioner because i have a vision to change the world!!!!

  • olaitan

    Reply Reply July 25, 2010

    steve, thanx alot, it as if u read my mind or let me say u are watching me from afar, i have dreams, work hard still cannot achieve anything. i feel so down like giving everything up, but this video is giving me something, i will give it a try. thanx alot

  • Harry Che

    Reply Reply July 29, 2010


    Thanks for the video. The two obstacles you talked about here are very true, confidence and lack of motivation. I believe many goals we don’t achieve isn’t because we can’t, but simply we don’t believe we can, thus the confidence on a level of 3 while obstacle of level 9.

    That’s very good point. But then how we can increase our confidence?

  • Kurt

    Reply Reply August 9, 2010

    good and clear video, I’m anxious to see the rest.

  • sundus

    Reply Reply September 15, 2010

    Thx,I’m lovin it ,very good video
    waiting to see #2

  • Salem

    Reply Reply September 25, 2010

    I’m eagering to the next video

  • hanae

    Reply Reply October 13, 2010

    Thanks for the video, but the big question for me is i have enought desire to acheive my goals but how to get confidence in my self, i’ve been tried for a long time without result, i feel “bloqué”

  • denis

    Reply Reply November 4, 2010

    I appreciate your clarity and the enthusiasm with which you communicate yourself; and depict the relationship between confidence and desire and their impact on motivation.
    Until we take action there is no prospect of achieving any results; and I believe there is a third vital element – our goals. It is our goals that light a beacon to illuminate our path and remind us of the direction in which we are heading; and shed light on the actions and decisions that must form our next steps, if we are to progress. It would also seem that when you talk about “virtual self” you are also describing a “goal” and we are simply using different language to describe the same thing?

  • Steve

    Reply Reply November 4, 2010

    Hey Denis… glad you’re enjoying the information and the journey :)

    The virtual self is not just a goal, it’s your entire self image – the bigger vision – you have for your life that illuminates your path and direction. Goals are only one part of this.

  • denis

    Reply Reply November 5, 2010

    Steve hi,

    Thanks for clarifying that <> This is an important distinction. Part of my work is as a vocational mentor. A key question is “What do you want to do with your life?” Your notion of the “virtual self” opens a new and valuable window and perspective on the question. I am looking forward to the next nugget.

    Best wishes,

  • Andrea

    Reply Reply November 7, 2010

    Hey Steve,
    Thats really amazing!!! please continue sending me these videos.. They really help me alot..


  • Irfan

    Reply Reply November 15, 2010

    Too small content as first video. Reaching to topic is slow, so I propose to adopt a faster tempo.
    I waint for the real content to come in next videos.

  • Dhansuhka

    Reply Reply November 16, 2010

    Dearest Steve,

    Thank you very much for your great effort on educate people on how to live happily.

    Kind regards,


  • Rhea

    Reply Reply November 26, 2010

    loved your video
    really excited for your next newsletters
    would love to hear from you soon…

  • Steve

    Reply Reply November 26, 2010

    Glad you’re enjoying the videos Rhea :-)

  • George

    Reply Reply November 30, 2010

    Hi, I look forward to the rest of the videos.

    Keep up the good work.


  • Nora

    Reply Reply December 2, 2010

    hi steve,
    i like your vedio. i think most important is the theory or belief you hold. just hope i could have more time. or maybe i just shut up now and start working on the course!


    Reply Reply March 11, 2011

    I liked it


    Reply Reply March 11, 2011


  • Ivan

    Reply Reply March 21, 2011

    Hey Stephen, thats a good video but why is there sharp pitch sound alongside with your speech?

  • Andrew

    Reply Reply May 10, 2011

    Awesome. just awesome.

  • Leticia

    Reply Reply May 22, 2011

    Hello Steve, I´m writting from Mexico, I love your videos, I am new here and very excited to learn.

  • Phyllis

    Reply Reply June 6, 2011

    Thanks Steve, looking forward to the next video.

  • Ian

    Reply Reply June 20, 2011

    Hi Sir Steve, I’m from Philippines.. I just can’t wait to see your next video.. (.^ _ ^.) your message is a big help for me to overcome those two big obstacles (lack of confidence and lack of motivation). looking forward for your next videos.

  • florian

    Reply Reply July 9, 2011

    “if you have faith as small as a mustard seed you can move mountains”.That is written in The Bible.And it has a subtle link with the new and amazing things that Science reveals us today:about how neurons in our brain and the electrical impulses they release(that WE release)practically “mess” with quantum physics and the world around us.Basically.we can choose any field or frequency and CREATE our own world..as we go!Yo,Steve,if you can show me how to choose and stick with the frequency I need from now on,(and that is Love),than you will be my idol phoreva!Peace…

  • Hesham Badr

    Reply Reply October 13, 2011

    Hello Steve
    hope you are doing fine , i will wait for your next video sounds very promising &related to quantum physics in a way or another

    go ahead

  • Nap

    Reply Reply October 24, 2011

    Desire and motivation to follow-through is one of the many challenges we face through life. People are content to live a poor life rather than be uncomfortable making it a better one. Here’s an old cliche, “one cannot motivate an unmotivated person”. If that’s the case, then desire will not work, and neither will motivation. It’s interesting to find out your unlocking of the code to address these life’s challenges. Thank you.

  • maria

    Reply Reply December 26, 2011

    you know steve, people that usually come to search for this kind of information you are sharing, they come not barehanded, but “armed” with some built’in information.
    most of all know at a very common sense level that we lack something, usually self confidence and motivation.
    i believe that the most powerful thing a person can do, after having watched this video is: to be convinced to pass to action. if possible, now, immediately.
    how can he be convinced to do it ?
    by touching his emotions.
    and by finishing the video with a simple question: for exemple, when do you want to start? what do you want to do now ? write down 3 things based on this info. etc
    i learned this from a coach that has a website in romania. who is at the same time a professor at the university. in psychology.

    otherwise, all ears and eyes for the 2nd video !

  • yitz

    Reply Reply January 18, 2012

    but you didn’t explain HOW to raise my confidence, or HOW to build my desire/motivation.

  • Mary Grace Chua

    Reply Reply March 13, 2012

    I really like this topic Steve :) very inspiring and It really changed and helps me a lot :)

  • Ana

    Reply Reply May 19, 2012

    Hi Steve thanks from Argentina, interesting video, GOALS Goaaaaaaaaal :) maradona

  • Ioana

    Reply Reply November 6, 2012

    I’ve recently discovered you and I think you’re very cool. You have a great power of motivating people and that is BIG. Your advice really helps and you make it all seem so easy. Thank you! Cheers :)

  • Anthony

    Reply Reply January 29, 2013

    Hi Steve, l love the work you do, looking forward to to the next video, thanks.

  • Karen Marrow

    Reply Reply February 2, 2013


    This is an awesome video! I wholeheartedly believe these are the obstacles.

    Someone who believes something will be easy and has confidence in themselves is so much more likely to reach their goals than someone who is going to “try it and see what happens.”

    Looking forward to your next video!



  • Nouf

    Reply Reply April 3, 2013

    I can’t wach it i wish it was not adobe flash i tried to download it but it didn’t work :(

  • ks

    Reply Reply May 28, 2013

    Hello Steve

    I am going to go through this video training session with fresh mind. The first video felt like sowing a seed with first ray of sunlight falling on it



  • Cynthia

    Reply Reply July 21, 2013

    Couldn’t see all the videos of this particular lecture. Please what could be the problem? Thank you

  • Rand

    Reply Reply August 4, 2013

    HI Steve, i really appreciate what you’re doing for people. but i got an idea i think it’ll help people to understand more ‘in my opinion’ i think you should interduce people who had been in any situation and they survived or, just “show us” something instead of just saying it in words. Thanks a lot. keep going :)

  • JK & IM

    Reply Reply September 21, 2013

    Hi Steve, thanks for sharing.I look forward to see what you have found out. I have also read the book, and from what I have heard is the only book that works for ordinary people, that I am now reading,”How to get lots of money for anything fast”, and struggling with from time to time because it is time consuming and to be frank boring sometimes to actually take action and do the exercises.
    Thanks again Steve and have a nice saturday!

  • Sanaa

    Reply Reply November 27, 2013

    Steve you are absolutely right. Desire and confidence are the most important thing to achieve your goal.

  • Joe

    Reply Reply February 2, 2014

    Thanks Steve, great presentation, I’m looking forward to more lectures.

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